Nowadays, many of us think that it’s cheesy to be trying to act fresh and suave by throwing romantic pickup lines to approach a woman. I used to think so, too.

I used to have trouble trying to get a girl to like me. I get tongue-tied whenever I’m within two feet of a gorgeous woman. My friends teased me a lot that in order to get a girlfriend, I should just join singles online dating and singles chat rooms instead where I can hide behind someone else’s identity. That way, I can say any cute pick up lines to attract a woman and wouldn’t have to worry about humiliation if ever I’d get rejected.

So, that’s what I did.  I joined many singles online dating sites. I tried talking to women through online chats and did my best to impress them with some of the best pickup lines I know. Little did I know that even meeting females online will prove to be difficult if you lack some essential online dating tips and one of the most important tips is knowing some great romantic pick up lines that work—because mine obviously didn’t which I realized after weeks of chatting with women and none of them seemed bedazzled by my charm and wit.

That’s when I decided to ditch the singles online dating world and instead, approach women in person. So I searched for the secret to approaching and attracting women. After coming across several dating techniques to approach women I found out that romantic pick up lines are one of the best in attracting women.

Many think that romantic pickup lines are corny and won’t get you anywhere but I am proof that they are effective tools when flirting with girls and understanding women in general by observing how they respond to your lines. These good pickup lines will work if you are able to say them at the right place and at the right time.

My first date tip is that when you approach a woman, you should try to look casual and cool. Don’t show her right away that you are interested or this will throw her off especially if she is not initially interested in you yet. Then, ask her an opinion about something. When she responds with a hint of interest in her voice and gestures, then you’ll know you have gotten past the most crucial part of the getting-to-know phase.

After that, you can use these 10 great romantic pick up lines for guys to use on girls. Remember to deliver them with a pleasant smile plastered on your face.

  1. Hey, don’t I recognize you? You’re the girl of my dreams. That’s why you looked so familiar!
  2. Wow, I never thought it could happen to me. I have finally met an FBI agent—Fabulous, Beautiful and Intriguing.
  3. Can you keep a secret? I’m a professional thief. I’m working on my biggest heist yet. Want to help? How can I steal your heart?
  4. Call me Mr. Fabulous—a great job, home and big bank account. But all they mean nothing without you to share it with.
  5. I never thought I’d ever get to say this to a woman, but I want to father your babies. What do you think of marriage?
  6. Life without you will be like a broken pencil. It’s pointless.
  7. Hi there. Cupid just called me. He says to tell you that he needs my heart back.
  8. Hi, I’m Mr. Right. Someone said you were looking for me.
  9. Can you please say ‘hi’? I just want to hear an angel talk.
  10. How does it feel to be the most beautiful girl in this room?

These are only some of the best romantic pick up lines for guys. Trying to win a girl’s heart takes more than just guts and good looks. You should have smart wits and a pocketful of romantic pick up lines. Click here to look for more tips on attracting women that worked for me.



Women Can Pick You Up Too!

Okay, so it’s not all the time that only the guys can pick gals up. Imagine if you are a guy, in a bar or somewhere else, wouldn’t you want to hear these words from a lady that has been eyeing you? But let’s not get overly excited about this, it doesn’t always mean that when a gal approaches you and says something, it means that you’re the apple of her eye. You have to be keen also to be able to determine that she’s really picking you or maybe she wants you out of her sight/way.

When hearing some of the lines below, you’ll realize that the dating game has been changed and things are really getting exciting and confusing at the same time  in the dating scene.

  • Are you a horse? (No.) Can I ride you anyway?
  • Did you just throw a water balloon at me? Because you’ve got me all wet.
  • Do you know anything about real estate? (Grab crotch or breasts) I was just wondering if you could tell me if this is a lot.
  • Do you like pool, cause I’ve got the balls if you’ve got the rack. (or vice versa)
  • Excuse me, I believe one of your ribs belongs to me.
  • I am not a queen but I’ll give you something royal.
  • I need a place to blot my lipstick. Can I use your lips?
  • I wanna take out your golf clubs and score a HOLE in 1.
  • I wanna take out your pencil and stick it in my pencil case.
  • I’m a vegetarian but I’d make an exception for your meat!
  • I’m easy, but it looks like you are hard.
  • I’m hungry and I’m on a liquid diet.
  • I’m on fire. Can I run through your sprinkler?
  • I’m wearing Revlon colorstay lipstick, want to help me test the claim it won’t kiss off?
  • If you were the alphabet, I’d place you under O!
  • Like the hurricane said to the coconut tree; hold on to your nuts I’m gonna give you the blow of your life.
  • My breasts are heavy, will you hold them for a while?
  • My clit ring got stuck. Can you open it with your teeth?
  • My vagina is a garden, want to shovel me out?
  • Nice pants. Can I test the zipper?
  • Wanna feed my beaver some wood?
  • Wanna lift? Your dick and my spirits.
  • Will you be my christmas cracker? I’d really like to pull you.
  • You bring a whole new meaning to the word, edible.
  • You know how I am with dicks? I suck at it.
  • Your body is a wonderland and i want to be Alice.

Melt a Woman’s Heart Thru These Lines….Literally!

Melt like cheese.. yes. Being sweet? Being romantic? There is a fine line between being romantic and being cheesy that borders into being corny. Avoid the lines that are too sweet that they seem unreal and impossible. Remember, this might be the first and last time that you will be speaking with this girl, so make sure not to scare her away by uttering some lines regarding the future and making promises. This is just a first time meeting, don’t make promises about the future.

Now these lines are sometimes too cheesy that it becomes too corny for a certain girl/woman. It all really depends on the receiver of the line. Remember that to avoid being overly corny, do not make outright assumptions. Just read on the list and see lines can be cheesy. If it appears corny for you, then don’t use it. It will surely feel that way to the person you will be delivering the file to.

  • All the other girls are just rough Drafts … but i think you are the FINAL COPY!!
  • Are you sure that you’re not a microwave oven? Because, you sure make my heart melt!
  • Can I take a picture of you, so I can show Santa just what I want for Christmas.
  • Do you have a name or can I call you mine?
  • Do you have a quarter? My mom told me to call her when I fell in love.
  • Do you like strawberries or blueberries better? I just want to know what to put in your pancakes tomorrow morning…
  • Do you want to make millions? millions of babies!
  • Does your watch have a second hand? I want to know how long it took for me to fall in love with you.
  • Hey baby. You got a jersey? (A jersey?…What for?) Because I need your name and number
  • Hey I just realized this, but you look alot like my next girlfriend.
  • Hi, I’m Mr. Right. Someone said you were looking for me.
  • Hi, my name is Doug. That’s god spelled backwards with a little bit of you wrapped up in it.
  • Hi, my name’s Right…Mr. Right.
  • I hope your day is as radiant as your smile.
  • I know I dont have a chance, but I just wanted to hear an angel talk
  • I tried to find the perfect line to make you mine, but after searching all I could come up with was this look in my eyes and your hand in mine, and the words, will you be mine?
  • I was looking at a light bulb today and it made me think of you and how you light up my world.
  • I’d buy you a drink, but I’d be jealous of the straw.
  • I’m a raindrop and I’m falling for you.
  • If I could rearrange the alphabet, I’d put U and I together.
  • If I had a garden I’d put your tulips and my tulips together.
  • If I pet you, would you follow me home?
  • Let’s make like a fabric softener and snuggle.
  • Like the sheets on your bed I want cover you with love.
  • Man, you sure are bright girl! Were you raised by the stars?
  • My love for you is like the universe…neverending!!
  • Please help the homeless. Take me home with you…
  • POOF! (What are u doing?) I’m here, where are your other two wishes?
  • The drink: $6. The room: $100. The night with you?: Priceless.
  • The night is young, the moon is bright, and you are here with me tonight.
  • There’s this movie I wanted to see and my mom said I couldn’t go by myself….
  • Was that an earthquake or did u just rock my world?
  • Was you Father an Alien? Cuz honey on planet earth there’s nothing else like you!
  • Why does it feel like the most beautiful girl in the world is in this room?
  • Yesterday I wanted to take I shower. I pulled back the curtain and there was a rhinoceros and a giraffe in the tub. They were eating cheese and they said Hi.
  • You – “Did it hurt”. The other person will naturally say “Did what hurt?”, You – “When you fell from heaven.”
  • You can fall off a building, you can fall out a tree, but baby, the best way to fall is in love with me.
  • You look cold. Want to use me as a blanket?
  • You’re ‘No Parking’ right? Just trying to guess your sign.
  • Why does it feel like the most beautiful girl in the world is in this room?

A Way to a Man/Woman’s Heart is through His/Her Aching Stomach

…..because of laughhing. So they say that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Well I can say that a way to a woman’s heart is through her aching stomach.. because of laughing. Everybody wants a funny person, a man who can break the ice and crack a woman’s lips into a smile. Being funny can make the tension of the first encounter disappear. So learn a few lines from the list and catch a woman’s attention thru smiling. Who knows, maybe you both can be smiling and laughing all throughout the night.

So what can be a funny line? It can be either a simple way of flattering the woman without being romantic and cheesy, making a bit fun of yourself, or maybe using a familiar line from tv shows or movies and maybe using a bit of a play on words can work. Just make sure the lines are intelligently composed and very well thought of. Avoid trying hard to be funny, because most of the time, these types are sure to fail. Just be yourself and read on the list below to give you and idea of what I am talkig about…

  • All this could be yours for one low, low price!
  • Apart from being sexy, what do you do for a living?
  • Are you a horse? (No.) Can I ride you anyway?
  • Are you a magnet cuz im attracted to you
  • Are you a parking ticket? (What?) You got fine written all over you.
  • Are you an alien? because you just abducted my heart.
  • Are you an interior decorator? When I saw you the room became beautiful.
  • Are you from Tennessee? Cause you’re the only TEN I see
  • Are you going to kiss me or do I have to lie to my diary?
  • Are you wearing lipstick? – she answers yes – Mind if a taste it?
  • Are your legs tired, because you’ve been running through my mind all day long.
  • Baby your like a student and I am like a math book, you solve all my problems
  • Baby, if you were words on a page, you’d be what they call fine print
  • Baby, you must be a broom, cause you just swept me off my feet.
  • Being a multimillionaire really doesn’t mean much when you have a weak heart.
  • Coffee? Tea? Me?
  • Could you please step away from the bar? You’re melting all the ice
  • Damn girl, you have more curves than a race track.
  • Damn! Somebody needs to write explosive on you, because you are the bomb!
  • Damn, if being sexy was a crime, you’d be guilty as charged!
  • Did you fart? Because you just blew me away
  • Do you believe in love at first sight or should I walk by again?
  • Do you believe in the hereafter? Well, then I guess you know what I’m here after.
  • Do you have a Bandaid? Because I just scraped my knee falling for you.
  • Do you have a map? Because I just keep getting lost in your eyes!
  • Do you have a sunburn, or are you always this hot?
  • Do you have any raisins? No? How about a date?
  • Do you have the time? (she gives you the time) No, the time to write my number down .
  • Do you know karate? Cos damn it honey, your body is really kickin.
  • Do you work for UPS? ‘Cause I swear I saw you checking out my package!
  • Does Levi’s pay you for wearing those and looking that good?
  • Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?
  • Giant polar bear (What?) It’s an icebreaker. Hi, my name is….
  • Girl, you better have a license, cuz you are driving me crazy!
  • Hello how are you? [Fine] Hey, I didn’t ask you how you looked!
  • Hi, I just wanted to give you the satisfaction of turning me down; go ahead say no.
  • Honey, I’m new in this town – dya think I could have directions to your house.
  • How bout you, me, and privacy?
  • How is your fever? [What fever?] Oh… you just look hot to me.
  • I am not a queen but I’ll give you something royal.
  • I can tell your future, it is you giving me your number.
  • I have 4 words for you Hol I Day Inn.
  • I heard milk does a body good, but damn girl, how much you been drinking?
  • I hope there’s a fireman around, cause you’re smokin’!
  • I hope you know CPR, cos you take my breath away!
  • I know I’m not a grocery item but I can tell when you’re checking me out
  • I know its not Christmas, but Santa’s lap is always ready.
  • I may not be a genie but I can make your dreams come true
  • I may not be Fred Flintstone but I can make your bed rock!
  • I need a place to blot my lipstick. Can I use your lips?
  • I wanna bag you like some groceries.
  • I was blinded by your beauty so I’m going to need your name and number for insurance reasons.
  • I wish you were DSL so I could get high-speed access
  • I’m not feeling myself today, can I feel you?
  • I’m wearing Revlon colorstay lipstick, want to help me test the claim it won’t kiss off?
  • If I told you you have a gorgeous figure would you hold it against me.
  • If looks could kill you would be a weapon of mass destruction.
  • If this bar is a meat market, you must be the prime rib.
  • If you don’t wanna have kids with me, then why don’t we just practice?
  • If you were a drug, I would overdose!
  • If you were the new burger at McDonalds you would be the Mcgorgeous!
  • I’m addicted to yes, and I’m allergic to no. So what’s it gonna be?
  • I’m invisible. (Really?) Can you see me? (Yes) How about tomorrow night?
  • I’m like chocolate pudding, I look like crap but im as sweet as can be.
  • I’m not drunk, I’m just intoxicated by you.
  • I’m sorry, were you talking to me? Her: No. Well then, please start.
  • I’m sure glad I brought my library card, ’cause I’m checking you out!
  • Is your last name Gillete cause your the best a man can get.
  • I’ve got the ship, you’ve got the harbor … what say we tie up for the night?
  • I’ve just moved you to the top of my ‘to do’ list.
  • My psychiatrist sent me for an MRI because she thinks I have a magnetic personality.
  • Screw me if I am wrong, but haven’t we met before?
  • Should I break it to your friend that she’s going home alone?
  • Take an ice cube to the bar, smash it, and say, ‘Now that I’ve broken the ice, will you sleep with me?’
  • That outfit would look great in a crumpled heap next to my bed.
  • Wanna come over for some pizza and sex? No? Why? Don’t you like pizza?
  • Well? Have you saved up enough to take me out yet?Well? Have you saved up enough to take me out yet?
  • Were you arrested earlier? It’s gotta be illegal to look that good.
  • What does it feel like to be the most beautiful girl in this room?
  • Ya know, you look really hot! You must be real reason for global warming.
  • You are so selfish! You’re going to have that body the rest of your life and I just want it for one night.
  • You be the tree, and I’ll wrap you like a Koala.
  • You bring a whole new meaning to the word, edible.
  • You don’t need car keys to drive me crazy.
  • You had better phone the firefighters in advance, cause when you’re done with me, we’ll be on fire!
  • You know the Power company is looking for you coz you’re so electrifying.
  • You know what? Your eyes are the same color as my Porsche.
  • You know what’d look good on you? Me.
  • You know, we have actually met before. Remember the dream you had of the perfect guy? I was the guy standing to his right.
  • You look life my first wife! (how many have you had?) none.
  • You look like a big glass of water and I sure am thirsty!
  • You look like the type of girl who has heard every line in the book … So what’s one more??
  • You look so sweet your givin me a toothache.
  • You make me melt like hot fudge on a sundae.
  • You make my software turn to hardware!
  • You might not be the best looking girl here, but beauty is only a light switch away.
  • You must be in a wrong place – the Miss Universe contest is over there.
  • You see my friend over there? Good. I thought the drugs were starting to make me hallucinate.
  • You’re like a cappuccino: hot, sweet, and you make me nervous.
  • Your body is a wonderland and i want to be Alice.
  • Your body’s name must be Visa, because it’s everywhere I want to be.
  • Your daddy must have been a baker, because you’ve got a nice set of buns.
  • Your good looks don’t intimidate me. (Walk away)
  • You’re so hot when i look at you I get a tan
    • You’ve been a bad girl/boy. Go to my room.

Sweet Romantic Lines

Want to say the words that are sure to go straight to a woman’s heart? Read on! These are lines that are not overly sweet and romantic and are sure to make any girl’s heart skip a beat. Now, this is different from all those corny and cheesy lines okay? These are just small and short statements that can make any woman think twice before turning you down. These lines may break or make your first move, just be sure to choose what line you can use for the perfect time and the perfect gal. Any woman may think you are swee t or corny, so make sure to choose the best one that is applicable to you, the girl and the current situation. Remember that sincerity is the perfect way to go so choose the best one that really comes from your heart… 

  • (hold out hand) Would you hold this for me while I go for a walk?
  • (while looking at stars) Baby, I didn’t see any stars in the sky tonight, the most heavenly body was sitting right next to me.
  • Am I dead, Angel? Cause this must be heaven!
  • Are you as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside?
  • Are you lost? Because heaven’s a long way from here.
  • Can I have directions? ["To where?"] To your heart.Can I have directions? ["To where?"] To your heart.
  • Ever since I met you, you’ve lived in my heart without paying any rent.
  • Excuse me, can you empty your pockets? I believe you have stolen my heart.
  • Excuse me, I think you have something in your eye. Nope, it’s just a sparkle.
  • Excuse me….Hi, i’m writing a term paper on the finer things in life, and i was wondering if i could interview you…
  • Hello, I’m a thief, and I’m here to steal your heart.
  • I didn’t know that angels could fly so low!
  • I don’t know if you’re beautiful or not, I haven’t gotten past your eyes yet
  • I dropped a tear in the ocean, the day I find it is the day I’ll stop loving you.
  • I have never had a dream come true until the day that I met you.
  • I know somebody that thinks they might like you a lot. And if I wasn’t so shy, I would tell you who it is.
  • I must be a snowflake, ‘cuz I’ve fallen for you
  • I think I’ve just found the angel I’d like to be touched by.
  • If a star fell for every time i thought of you, the sky would be empty.
  • If beauty were sunlight, you’d shine from a million light-years away
  • If beauty were time, you’d be an eternity.
  • If home is where the heart is, then my home is in you.
  • If I judged you on a 1 to 10 scale, I’d give you a ’9.9′. It would be a perfect 10 if you were with me.
  • If you were a tear in my eye I would not cry for fear of losing you.
  • It’s not my fault I fell in love. You are the one that tripped me.
  • Life without you would be like a broken pencil…pointless.
  • Roses are red, violets are blue, how would you like it if I came home with you?
  • There must be something wrong with my eyes, I can’t take them off you.
  • When I marry I wonder if God will be mad that I stole one of his angels.
  • Woman, I hate to see you go, but I LOVE watching you leave…
  • You know that I think about you only twice a day? Once when my eyes are open, and once when they are closed.
  • You shouldn’t wear makeup. It’s messing with perfection!

Dirty/Bad Pick Up Lines by Men or Maybe Women…

Okay, so not all pick up lines do work. They may be suggestive, rude or offensive. Finding the right girl and/or time to utter these lines might be tricky. This can ruin your chances to have that first moment you have been waiting for to get that elusive girl you have been eyeing for the night.

You may get various reactions from the person you utter these lines to. They can crack the woman up, make her punch you on your face or totally ignore you for the rest of the night. Just like what I have mentioned earlier, it is crucial for you to know what kind of a person you are trying to win over.

This can be done through observation and a little bit of eavesdropping to get a clue what type of person she/he is. Now if all fails, maybe then it has something to do with that ‘ice breaker’ that you used.

Read below for the most common suggestive lines used by men/women. See if you have used some of them and realize what went wrong when you approached that elusive woman/girl/man/boy and didn’t get the response you were hoping for:

  • (Put your hands down your pants, then smell them) Ah, smells like success. Want to smell?
  • [Grab the ass] Pardon me, is this seat taken?
  • Are those implants?
  • Are you a god? (Um, no.) You’re not? Then why do I want to kneel before you?
  • Are your parents retarded? ‘cuz DANG your special!
  • Baby, you must be a slut because you give out more ass than a donkey dealership.
  • Baicarumba…are those real?
  • Bitch, give me some of that disease!
  • Do you mind if I hang out here until its safe back where I farted.
  • Do you spit or swallow?
  • Even though the ugly lights are shining bright, you still look beautiful.
  • Excuse me miss… Is your face so messed up because you fell from heaven.
  • Excuse me, but would you like to hold the priesthood?
  • Excuse me, is there an airport nearby large enough for a private jet to land?
  • Excuse me, you look just like my personal ho. May I have your name?
  • Gee, that’s a nice set of legs, what time do they open?
  • Girl, if I were a fly, I’d be all over you, because you’re the shit!
  • Got two nipples for a dime?
  • Have you seen my enormous jar of Penis Reducing Cream?
  • Hi, I’m Batman. Wanna see my batmobile?
  • Hi. I’m an astronaut, and my next mission is to explore Uranus.
  • I had your sister last year, she sucked. Wanna defend your family honor?
  • I just shit in my pants. Can I get into yours?
  • If I flip a coin, what do you reckon my chances are of getting head?
  • If I told you I had a 2 inch dick would you fuck me? [No] Good, because mine is 8 inches.
  • If you were on hotornot.com, I would give you a ten.
  • Nice shoes, wanna fuck?
  • Nice tits. Mind if I squeeze them?
  • The word of the day is legs. Let’s say we head back to your place and spread the word.
  • Turn to the girl sitting next to you at the bar and say… “I’m not really this tall….I’m sitting on my wallet.”
  • Two words explain me when I’m not with you. Jergens Lotion.
  • Was your father a farmer? Because you sure have grown some nice melons!
  • What has 142 teeth and holds back the incredible hulk? My zipper.
  • You are just truly absolutely beautiful! Can you cook and clean also?
  • You are so beautiful that I want to be reincarnated as your child so that I can breastfeed by you until I’m 30.
  • You are so beautiful that I would marry your brother just to get into your family.
  • You know how they say guys are full of shit, well that may be true, but I just got my colon cleaned today.
  • You’re so fine, I’d suck your daddy’s dick just to get some of where that came from.
  • You’re so fine, you make me want to go out and get a job.
  • Your place or mine? Tell you what? I’ll flip a coin. Head at my place, tail at yours.

 

Favorite Places to Meet Women


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Knowing where to meet women can be the very first challenge for men who are trying to put some life back into their dating.  It can be an annoying and frustrating challenge for those men who have mastered how to approach and attract women but now find themselves at a loss of where to actually meet women.  Obviously unless you know where to meet women where they will be open to being approached and asked out on a date your other skills are effectively useless.  Here I would like to offer you a few suggestions where to meet women.
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Where to Meet Women: Online First

Men used to have to go to all sorts of places they didn’t really want to in an attempt to meet the kind of woman they might be interested in.  Needless to say a great deal of time and effort was wasted because it rarely eventuated that exactly the right woman was in exactly the right place at exactly the right time!

Men don’t have that amount of time to waste, we want to go out, find exactly what we are looking for and getting down the business of asking for a date.  If this sounds like how you think, your best option is to get online and start increasing your dating options.  You think this is only for desperate losers?  Wrong!  That may have been true 10 years ago, but today it’s the smart, savvy guys that are harnessing the power of the internet to get exactly what they want from the dating arena.

The internet and online dating sites is a perfect place where to meet women quickly and decide if you want to get to know them further.  Try it – as soon as you have finished reading this article pull up a social networking site or dating site and set up your profile.  As soon as you have done this you will feel good about proactively attending to your dating dilemma.  You will be increasing you dating options and the number of places available where to meet women.

Just remember once you do meet online, move the interaction out into the ‘real world’ ASAP!


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Where to Meet Women: Offline Locations

If you don’t know where to meet women offline start thinking beyond the usual places such as nightclubs and bars or any other places where any half attractive woman will be swamped by other guys trying to date her.  When thinking about where to meet women, think outside the box and go places the majority of guys wouldn’t even consider.   Some examples of where to meet women that most men wouldn’t think about include the park, the store or a coffee house.   Not only have you eliminated the competition in these places, but you have also found women who have their ‘pick up radar’ on minimum intensity, that is they are far more relaxed and approachable.    To further capitalize on meeting women in these locations try to choose places where they will not be in a hurry and do actually have the time to talk with you.

The Secret Ingredient for Where to Meet Women

There are many great places where to meet women, but a key factor in regards to your options for dating is your social circle.  Provided you have established yourself as a man of high value and you have a strong social circle, you probably won’t really need to concern yourself with where to meet women because your social circle will bring them to you.  So as part of your strategy in discovering where to meet women be sure to build a strong social circle, and very soon you will never have to wonder where to meet women again.

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This The Art of Approaching review is being written after having read Joseph Matthews e-book on how to approach women.  You are probably considering buying this book because you have come to the conclusion that getting past the initial approach and first impressions stages is the most difficult part of the dating game.  There are many other e-books available which will offer general advice on how to attract, flirt, romance and seduce women, but I don’t believe anyone offers as good all-round advice as Matthews in The Art of Approaching.

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Joseph Matthew wrote The Art of Approaching almost 10 years ago and since then he has revised and upgraded it as he has discovered different and better techniques in coaching men how to approach women.  The Art of Approaching review of the very first edition would have claimed that the book was super, and this is definitely true, however later editions are not only more polished but also more effective.  All editions include a comprehensive breakdown of how and where to approach women, how to prepare your mind, what to say and how close to interact, how to handle rejection and so much more.  There are sections on storytelling, body language, situation approaches, initial approaches, opinions and openers.  All the information provided in The Art of Approaching is practical, useful and pertinent to all guys at all different stages of the dating game.

Occasionally a The Art of Approaching review may suggest that the book is designed for beginners who have no idea how to approach women, but I would be inclined to suggest that any guy who hasn’t perfected the art will glean an enormous amount of useful information from the book.  The Art of Approaching is a resource that you can refer to your entire life to develop and prefect the skills required to interact and build connections with women.


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Joseph Matthews, the author of The Art of Approaching, is the perfect living example that it doesn’t take looks to attract women.  Matthews, also known as Thundercat, is a prime example of a ‘zero to hero’ dater.  Taking this into consideration this The Art of Approaching review definitely recommends the book to the men out there who are convinced they have no chance of success with women.  Matthews’s personal story and insights offer you so much proof and practical advice that he has become one of the most respected men in the PUA community.

The Art of Approaching opens with Matthews sharing his own ‘rock bottom moment’ and the trials and tribulations he went through in discovering the secrets of approaching, attracting and seducing women.  Further he openly shares his personal experience of being too afraid to go out on a Friday night, instead staying home and masturbating to Susan Sommers on ‘Three’ Company’.  He then details how he moved on from that scenario and mustered up the courage and confidence to become the master of the pick up!

In concluding this The Art of Approaching review I would highly recommend you buy it.   The Art of Approaching is definitely a value for money purchase especially considering the amount of information you are offered which Matthews had to glean by suffering through years of painstaking and often embarrassing trial and error.

Seduction Tips for Men – How to Make You Simply Irresistible

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If you are still looking for some seduction tips for men that can add a spark to your dating life, you’ve probably already tried many things that haven’t actually worked.  Worse than that, poor advice or bad seduction tips for men have even resulted in you missing out on opportunities with women in the past.  Fortunately you will learn some seduction tips for men here that will teach you how to please a women and how to create an irresistible attraction so that she will not only welcome but also encourage your advances.

The first thing you need to have in order is your mind-set when putting these seduction tips for men into practice.

Women Want no Part in It

You may not believe it but women actually enjoy and want sex just as much as men do.  They actually welcome you seducing them but, and this is the confusing part, women don’t want to play an active or leading role in their seduction.  Indirect communication and subtlety are the key to any seduction tips for men.  Women are indirect communicators and want their interactions and connections with men to involve some romance, mystery and curiosity.

Follow this path when seducing a woman and she will be completely comfortable being involved in the process.  It a peculiarity of women that they feel the ‘magic’ is gone if it becomes obvious what you are trying to do and she will not only start to feel like an object but will also get turned off.

Don’t try to seduce her, try to get her comfortable

These seduction tips for men will hopefully stop men from making the mistake of thinking that they have to ‘get a woman to have sex’.  The truth of the matter is that women already want to have sex, they just want to have it with a guy they are a comfortable with.  You will find it a lot easier to lead her to the next level if you can build a connection and rapport with a woman and make her feel at ease first.  You should be building this connection and putting her at ease when you are interacting with her on dates by ensuring she is comfortable being close to you and with touching.  A good way to do this is to begin with non-threatening and settle contacts, increasing the level of touching as she becomes more at ease with you and more comfortable with the idea.

The idea of getting a woman comfortable makes the next couple of seduction tips for men easy to use.


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Meet Her at Your Place

Don’t meet her in public, instead invite her to come by your place and then go together somewhere else from there.  This way she has to go home with you to get her car and you can avoid the awkward situation of how you can entice her to come back to your place.  Further, once you are home it is not so difficult to invite her in for a moment rather than having to ask her on the other side of town while she is thinking and worrying “This guy just wants me to come back to his place to go to bed with him”.

It’s irrelevant if that is actually what SHE may want, you have to remember that for her it is important that she isn’t obvious about it!

Don’t Chase Her, Get Her to Chase You

From seduction tips for men you must remember that you have to move forward slowly, teasing, pulling back and withholding between steps.  Don’t give your hand right away to a woman who wants to hold it.  It is the same thing with kissing.  When you do kiss or hold hands be sure to be the first to pull away.  Pull back with confidence from her advances.  Of all the seduction tips for men this one will have her pulling off your clothes in no time!

If you practice these seduction tips for men, pretty everything else you could possible want will take care of itself.  Have fun and enjoy!

A Review of Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo


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I’m writing this review of Double Your Dating by David Angelo to share some of my experiences with the now infamous e-book.  This review of Double Your Dating is in fact more of a summary based on my experiences using this book as my guide.  Your experience will of course be different depending on where you are up to in the dating game

Why and How ‘Double Your Dating’ is Different

The first important thing to realize about Double Your Dating is that the author, David DeAngelo, is different to the majority of other dating coaches out there.  DeAngelo practiced all the techniques detailed in his book and still actively uses the principles he preaches.  From the moment you pick up his book it becomes apparent that this guy is speaking and teaching from experience.  DeAngelo reveals why women claim they want a nice guy but then make choices completely to the contrary.

Double Your Dating offers clear, concise and practical explanations about how attraction works, taking all the frustration and confusion out of it.  Within the first 10 pages you will glean more than 10 new ideas about how you can actually double your dating.  Further, you will learn how and why you blew opportunities with women, and why you still didn’t know what had actually happened.

You may find it a little unnerving and embarrassing once it becomes clear just how many things you are doing wrong in the initial stages of building attraction.  Once you recognize these details you will realize that you have been presenting yourself as a desperate man of low social value, a major attraction killer with women.

The Really, Really Good News

This review of Double Your Dating needs to emphasize the really good news about the book.  While you may be kicking yourself about all the things you’ve been doing wrong, the good news is Double Your Dating offers very easy advice which you can follow to rectify these mistakes, set a new correct course and start getting positive results.  In this review of Double Your Dating, I’d like to offer a few brief examples of some of the immediate changes you can make such as:


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  • From the very first contact start building attraction and a strong connection
  • On each of the first three dates handle yourself differently
  • A comprehensive strategy so you can approach every interaction with confidence.

This review of Double Your Dating offers only very brief examples of what you will learn from reading this book.  The more serious students will learn a range of strategies on how to become a modern day Don Juan when reading the entire book.  The three tips offered in this review of Double Your Dating will already put you in the upper 10% of guys trying to attract women

In conclusion, this review of Double Your Dating would definitely recommend you purchasing the book and put into practice what you learn.  From my personal experience you cannot go wrong!

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So here is a question for you:  Are you sick and tired of cheesy online dating advice or online dating tips for men such as ‘Have a good profile, ask her something she can reply to, and mention something from her profile’ and so forth.

More than 90% of men give up on online dating within the first three months because of a lack of results.  So if you’ve been feeling useless at getting a girlfriend on line, take some comfort in knowing that you are not alone.  MOST men are feeling this way.

Despite this fact you are probably still wondering and hoping that there are some online dating tips which actually lead to success and results.  Here are three you can rely on and start using straight up:

Don’t Date Online

What?!  Isn’t this meant to be online dating advice and now you’re telling me the answer is not to do it?  Well…yes and no.  The key to online dating is to use it as a way to MEET women.  Online dating is a great tool to meet women but if you really want to get a girlfriend and build a wonderful relationship you must get offline and interact ASAP!

Most online dating tips only detail how to illicit a response from someone, how to respond to another’s email and how to communicate by email.  Unfortunately following this advice can easily lead to a great deal of time and effort being wasted.  You may build a great relationship by email or phone and then found there was no real connection when you finally met the woman in person.

Also you should never forget there are many women out there who either post out of date photographs or just want to chat with someone online and then aren’t willing to meet in person.  The best piece of online dating advice I can give you is to use online dating simply as a meeting place but get to know a woman in person….the old fashioned way!


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Remember there are plenty of first date tips available online if the thought of finally meeting a woman is daunting for you.

Timing Counts…a Lot

The following is a great piece of online dating advice.  It probably sounds strange to a guy because guys are action and results oriented and not too bothered with timing, but women are a different kettle of fish.  Women are all about how a man meets, greets, pursues and seduces them, so the best thing you can do is send out all your emails on Saturday and Sunday morning.

The basis for sending emails on Saturday and Sunday morning is that most women dating online get many emails.  During the week not only are they too busy to answer them, they are also too distracted to pay proper attention to them.  The basic scenario is that most single women will go out on Friday and Saturday nights hoping to meet a guy.  When they don’t, they go home frustrated and check their emails.  This is the prime time for your email to be waiting in her inbox!

The Long and Short of Emailing

There are three important online dating tips to remember when emailing women on online dating sites:

  • Make sure your email is fewer than 100 words – too many words will  result in her not reading it either because it’s just too long or because she thinks you have nothing better to do with your time
  • Persist, persevere and be patient – send a follow up if she doesn’t reply to your first email
  • Be sure to establish yourself as a man of value

The last point is sometimes a difficult one to balance.  The important thing to do is show an equal amount of disinterest and interest.  Remember it’s not such a big deal if she doesn’t respond to your email.  If you don’t hound her at this stage, in her mind you are not desperate and she will assume you have a higher social value than many of the other men who are contacting her.

So now regroup and start putting this online dating advice into action.  These online dating tips used in conjunction with first date tips will give you the upper hand in the dating game and you will soon have more quality women in your life than the other guys out there….all from the comfort of your own home.